Honey that's not a whip mark...

Just how do you explain the markings left behind from a BDSM session with a professional Domina? Everyone seems to have a way. I've heard from many slaves over the years, the clever ways they allow their tortured asses, assholes, genitalia, nipples, feet, oh you name it to heal while they come up with some excuse to tell their loved ones. Wearing long shorts to a pool party to conceal a whip-marked ass. Telling the wife that they slipped and fell and must have hit the side of their desk at work. Accidents of some sort tend to be popular...

One of the things I've always asked new clientele is if they can be "marked" - meaning, what sort of marks both do you enjoy, and want to carry away with you? Some marks quickly fade, others are more enduring (and endearing). A lot of this generally depends upon if the client is involved with someone - wife, girlfriend, regular service to another Mistress.

After years of playing, I have very good control over any marks left. I'm quite accurate with all of my whips and toys - as I'm sure you know, not everyone is. It cannot be left to the client to determine how much pain equals how many marks... just because you want it harder doesn't mean that I'm going to pull out my harshest whip if you cannot be marked, or need something that fades quickly!

Imagine this - a new slave appears at my door. When asked during a phone interview, he indicated an interest in heavy caning, to go along with a schoolteacher scenario. I make sure to have my schoolteacher outfit and pumps with me that day, and test a few canes to be sure that they haven't begun to splinter. When he arrives and we sit down to discuss the session, he mentions casually that he cannot be marked in any way - that his wife will find out he does this sort of thing. Lets see, heavy caning (which inherently leaves marks, and not the quickly-fading kind) and no marks. You're kidding me, right?

Then he mentions that Mistress so-and-so did that for him and always does. I counter with, so why aren't you seeing Mistress so-and-so anymore? He blabbers something about them no longer being compatible. I automatically think that he probably hasn't ever even been caned - it's either a fantasy that he's held for ages or that he's seen an inexperienced rent-a-Domina who hit him with something that wasn't even a cane (most likely a flogger, they all seem to at least have one of those...).

If he'd experienced a real heavy caning from me he'd know it - and have the marks to prove it - as well as feeling the incredible heat that would radiate off of his bright-red ass as the session progressed. Depending on his skin type, there might also be a few trickles of blood. I would have him pull down his pants to admit to some transgression, start with a bit of schoolboy humiliation and a good, sound over-the-knee spanking warmup before we got on to the serious caning (based on what he had expressed to me before we met).

In the end I called him a naughty schoolboy, spanked him a few times, and he was so overexcited that he just came. Apologized, practically jumped into his clothes, and ran out the door.

Not the heavy pain slut I'd been expecting, but hey, it's a living...

Katja Minx
www.katja-minx.com